Thursday, August 13, 2015

Private investigators reveal clues your spouse is cheating

The New York Post reports:
When you catch cheaters for a living, you learn pretty quickly what the warning signs of infidelity are. “It could be a simple change in behavior, says Wofford. “Like all of a sudden, the woman’s husband is working out, buys some new clothes or a sports car, or has a different hairstyle.”

Suddenly working late all the time and using the computer or the phone more frequently than normal can also be tip-offs, says McBride. “If he’s guarding his phone and always has it on him so nobody can look at it — that can be suspicious,” he says. “Or if he puts a code on his phone if there wasn’t one before or deletes his text messages or incoming calls. … Also, if the husband doesn’t want to have sex with his partner anymore or his sexual desires change suddenly, that’s a big sign.”

Wofford and McBride also say that if you strongly suspect your partner is getting something on the side, the odds are, you’re probably right. “Four out of five times, the person is cheating,” says Wofford.

McBride states a higher, scarier number: “It’s about 85 percent of the time when a woman suspects her significant other of cheating,” he says. “People come to us if they have a very strong suspicion.”
The numbers.